Monday, November 12, 2007

The Writer's Strike Continues


Strikes. No-one likes them. Whether it is the local automotive plant, a major league sport, the sanitation department, or television and film writers, strikes are bad for employer, employees, and all of the faithful customers that will go without.


When a profession like pro athletes or television writers goes on strike they often find it more difficult to get the kind of sympathy that a blue collar worker would get. They are often perceived as whiners who should be glad that they have such "good jobs" in the first place. You'll usually get no contest from them about that. But, what is fair is fair. And while it may difficult to sympathize with someone who makes four to a gazillion times your salary, just remember that there are people who make half what you make, who just might feel the same way about you.


What this is really about is being treated fairly. With respect. Like you matter. Whether you are a sandwich artist, sanitation worker, auto worker, nurse, pro hockey player, or even a television writer you deserve to be treated with respect and compensated fairly.


After all, if one employer can get away with it, what makes you think that your employer won't try it next?


Namaste,


Samara Leigh

Sunday, November 11, 2007

The Samara Update

Sorry I've been a bad blogger again, being missing in action for a full month. I've taken on a temporary assignment in the Outer Realm - i.e. outside of my home office - as an HR Recruiter and I have definitely been neglecting my blogger duties. My deepest apologies. Thank you for all of the kind comments on hitting 100 posts and for being concerned about my well-being. I'll be visiting blogs this week to say hello, yes I am alive. :-)


While I haven't been on my best blogger behavior, I have managed to keep writing. Here are a few of the projects that I've been working on during the past month or two:

I am a regular columnist at All Things Girl, Shades Zine, She Unlimited / Daily Confection, and Femme Fan. I also posted my first blog post over at the All Things Girl Blog earlier today.

While working for "the man" (LOL) has made it more difficult for me to keep up with my blog, it is certainly not an excuse for being a bad blogger. So, I will do my best to keep my head in the game from now on. Well, I've got 3,000 words to write today on my NaNoWriMo project, but I'll check back in later this week.

Ciao!


Samara Leigh

Tuesday, October 9, 2007

Blog Action Day 2007

I was so excited to find out about Blog Action Day on October 15th. It's not too late to participate. Visit http://www.blogactionday.org.

Namaste,

Samara Leigh

What Kind of Blogger are You?

What Kind of Blogger Are You?

Monday, October 8, 2007

100 Posts and Counting


I can't believe I finally made it to 100 posts. Let's just say that my first couple of blogging attempts did not make it to 100. Or even 50. Okay! Okay! I blogged like three times on each of them then forgot. :-) But no more. I am officially a bonafide blogger. Thanks for visiting, and as always, I'll leave the light on for you.

Best,

Samara Leigh

Need to Drop Some Bad Habits? Here is a Little Inspiration



I've been combing You Tube for this commercial for a couple of weeks. It is just too cute and a great reminder about the dangers of childhood obesity. A huge problem - no pun intended - in our country. Especially among minority children.

Namaste,

Samara Leigh

Thursday, September 27, 2007

Thirteen+ of My Favorite Romantic Comedies



Thirteen+ Favorite Romantic Comedies


Okay, I wanted to follow the rules and just add my thirteen favorite comedies, but I just couldn't narrow it down to thirteen. In fact, I left another 10 or 12 off of this list. Anyhoo, I tried to put my very favorites near the top of the list. What's your favorite romantic comedy?









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Saturday, September 22, 2007

The Post Burn Notice Blues

Ahh... Michael Westen. Who doesn't like a damaged, brilliant, sexy former spy with a big heart and commitment issues?

This has turned into the Year of the Cable Series for me. Monk, Psych, The Starter Wife, The Closer, My Boys, and Burn Notice. Before this year, the only cable series I'd ever watched were Sex and the City and Soul Food.

My favorite TV series this year was definitely Burn Notice. It combines some of my favorite movie elements:

  1. Smart action-adventure films like The Italian Job and Mission Impossible (II is my favorite).

  2. Bad-ass heroines like Lara Croft, Tomb Raider. Fiona, Michael Westen's former love interest (a gun-runner who spent 14 years with the IRA and has the Irish accent to prove it) is a ton of fun and sassy as hell.

  3. A hero who is handsome, smart, and goes for a zero body count. He's perfectly capable of kicking your ass. He just prefers to let someone else get their hands dirty. Like Charlie Croker in Italian Job or Ethan Hunt in Mission Impossible.
The season finale was last night. While I knew I'd have to wait for the new season to see what happens next, when the announcer said, "next summer," it totally bummed me out. Next summer? That's like a year from now. Geez! I just might have to hit the beaches of Miami in the meantime. Can you think of a better way to banish the Post Burn Notice Blues?

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Friday, September 21, 2007

Caridad Pineiro Featured on 30SomethingRebel.com


As you may already know, one of the projects I am currently working on is over at www.30SomethingRebel.com. The site features stories of women who've discovered happiness, success, or learned some really valuable lessons by following their own path.

This week's featured women is romance author, Caridad Pineiro. She's the author of several books including Sex and the South Beach Chicas and the newly released, The South Beach Chica's Catch Their Man.

Hop on over to 30SomethingRebel.com to read my interview with Caridad. She talks about why a successful lawyer loves writing romance novels and shares her thoughts on the marketing of Latino and other ethnic authors. Caridad also shares some tips on getting your novel written in a year, and writing query letters that will get agents and publishers to beg you for more. You can preview some of her books below.




Thursday, September 20, 2007

My 13 Favorite Emmy Looks








My Thirteen Favorite Looks from the 2007 Emmy Awards



Why do I care far more about the Red Carpet shows than I do about the Emmy show itself? Okay, maybe that's shallow, but I just haven't had much stomach for awards shows lately. I'll watch them with the fam sometimes, but usually with a book in hand.

Last night I was all about Design Star. And for some reason, the thought of watching Ryan Seacrest for three hours was just far more than I could take.

So, today I caught up on my Red Carpet fashion shows. Here are a few of my favorite looks including America Ferrera, Stacy London, Patrick Dempsey, Sally Field, Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Felicity Huffman, Mariska Hargitay, Padma Lakshmi, Kristen Bell, Jeremy Piven, and Eva Longoria.

(Written Monday, September 17th)




























































Tuesday, September 18, 2007

Shon Bacon Featured on 30SomethingRebel.com

Hop over to www.30SomethingRebel.com to meet author & editor, Shon Bacon, or get to know her a little better.

Namaste,

Samara Leigh

Monday, September 17, 2007

Cleveland Clinic Caves on Complaints About Painting

The Cleveland Clinic prides itself on its collection of art. However, a couple of complaints of racial bias got this painting - "My Home Town," by a local, Black artist, Michelangelo Lovelace - yanked. I honestly don't understand what all the fuss is. Is it because the crowd seems to be divided - mostly Blacks on one side and Caucasians on the other?


Anyone born and raised in Cleveland is fully aware that we live in one of the most segregated Metropolis in the US. Though, to our credit, our suburbs have become much more diverse. I thought art was supposed to be about making a commentary on our society. I believe that's what Mr. Lovelace was doing.

Read the story in the Cleveland Plain Dealer here.

Thursday, September 13, 2007

Thirteen Celebs That Need Some Serious Help



Thirteen Celebs That Need a PR Intensive, Real Rehab,
a Good Butt-whipping, or a Roll of Duct Tape - You Choose
  1. Britney Spears - I won't elaborate on the reasons here as they are known to the entire free world. However, I honestly feel sorry for this melted down mess of a former pop star. I'm gonna give Brit the Trifecta - Real Rehab (plus mental health counseling); a Good Butt-Whipping for not putting her kids anything close to first; and a PR Intensive. "Repeat after me: A day where I'm not the headline on OK! Magazine or ET (Entertainment Tonight) is actually a good day."
  2. Owen Wilson - He is seriously weird and quite often funny. I wish him only the best and I hope that he gets Real Rehab and mental health counseling. Why do we lose so many of our best comedians to overdose and suicide? I hope Owen makes a splendid recovery.
  3. Michael Vick - He gets a good butt-whipping for his horrible treatment of living, breathing beings and throwing away a promising and lucrative NFL career and endorsment deals. A PR Intensive for giving his own fans the finger. Oh, and probably some time in the pokie, to boot.
  4. Lindsey Lohan - I still like to remember her as the cute little redhead in Parent Trap. It's easier that way. Grown-up Lindsey also earns a Trifecta: Real Rehab, a good butt-whipping, and a PR Intensive.
  5. Dina Lohan - Here we're going to upgrade to a good ass-whipping for being more concerned about riding her daughter's coat tail to fame than about saving her daughter and a roll of duct tape to keep her off the air waves.
  6. Tom Cruise - I love your work, Tom. I really do. I even loved Far & Away. But, seriously, sometimes less is more. So please try to stay low-key for a while. And no jumping on the furniture. You get a PR Intensive, a roll of duct tape, and pair of Prince's [high-heel] boots.
  7. Isaiah Washington - Here's something I need for grown folks to understand: You don't have to say everything you think out loud. It's cute on toddlers, unless they've acquired a taste for profanity. On grown folks, not so cute. That goes for many of the following celebs, as well. Isaiah gets a roll of duct tape, a PR Intensive, and long-term diversity training.
  8. Rosie O'Donnell - A serious case of diarrhea of the mouth. She gets a roll of duct tape, a PR Intensive, and a good butt-whipping. Please note: I'm not against free-spirits or being outspoken. But, both can be done without getting into a catfight with every celeb in the free world.
  9. The Donald - Am I the only one annoyed by people who are not broke and still look a hot mess? I digress. A man of Donald's wealth and business acumen should not feel the need to jump in the pig pen and duke it out with some attention-grabbing celeb. Seriously Donald, you're too big for that. What would Bill Gates do? Donald gets a roll of duct tape and a new hair stylist. Seriously.
  10. Kanye West - Let me say first, I believe that the man is a musical genius. I've been a fan of his music and he puts on one hell of a concert and charges a price that REAL PEOPLE can actually afford. I respect that. However, I'll need to ask you to leave some of the crying and whining for the babies. I'm not even saying that you're always wrong. It is primarily your method of delivery (and your super-sized ego). Take a cue from other social activists who speak out without losing credibilty. Bono can get an audience with the heads of nations at the snap of a finger. But, he still had the integrity to make this video with Greenday criticizing the way Bush handled Hurricane Katrina. And we all love him for it. You will have a mobilizing effect on the hip-hop culture when you master the art of persuasion and learn to temper your intense passion with restraint. You get a roll of duct tape, a spanking, and a PR Intensive.
  11. Paris Hilton - The entitled rich kid thing is getting old. I'm glad to see Paris - though not abandoning her partying ways - has seemed to settle down a bit and seems to be getting over her Paparazzi addiction. Just in case, we'd better give her a PR Intensive.
  12. Kathy Hilton - She gets a butt-whipping for blaming the court, the media, and everyone except her DUI-collecting daughter.
  13. George W. - We're going to give him a PR Intensive, a public-speaking course, an emergency roll of tape anytime he's impelled to say something that will get turned into a WTF? sound byte, relationship counseling (starting with the lesson on how to say, I'm sorry. I was wrong) and some dance lessons. Though watching this video still cracks me up.

What do you think?

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Friday, September 7, 2007

Bill Maher's Idea to Keep Us from Invading Iran, Too

This post by Bill Maher on The Huffington Post is too funny. I think he might actually be on to something here. :-)

In fact, there are a few people that I might try this tactic with.


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Thursday, September 6, 2007

Note to Serena: Stop Self-Destructing


I love Serena Willams. Really. In fact, if it wasn't for her recent self-destructive antics, she'd have been much higher on my Thursday Thirteen list. I was really happy when both she and Venus came on the scene in tennis years ago. I was even happier when they lost the beads and apparently went to charm school.

I also respect what Venus and Serena have been able to accomplish off the court. They seem to be very smart business women. Which is why Serena's recent comments - much more reminiscent of a Tyson-style boxer than a tennis player - took me by surprise. While Serena has never been known for giving credit to her opponents, making ridiculous excuses and being generally disrespectful of a fellow player and the game overall is completely inexcusable.

After her loss Serena bitched about having to be at the press release to avoid being fined by the league. (See story here). At the press conference she said:
"I just think she (Henin) made a lot of lucky shots and I made a lot of errors."
Ahem, excuse me Ms. Thang, were we watching the same match? The way I see it, losing in straight sets 7-6, 6-1 just constitutes a good ol' ass-whipping.

To be sure, it was her game to win or lose - despite the fact that Henin is seeded #1 in the world and an excellent player. However, she just didn't bring her A game. Not to that match, and not to this year's U.S. Open overall. She barely squeaked through most of her previous matches against players well below her level. Her play seemed lazy and disinterested. So, why is she suddenly pissed because it finally caught up to her?

I am still a Serena Williams tennis fan. However, I hope her PR team, Venus, Oracene, and Richard remind her how quickly an adored sports icon can become a hated has-been whose lucrative endorsements have all dried up.

Thirteen Things I Love About Tennis


Did I mention that I LOVE tennis?
  1. Grand Slam Events - Of Course!
  2. Fifth Set (or Third Set) Tie-Breakers
  3. Hard-earned points (usually preceded by Deuce #4)
  4. Arthur Ashe & Louis Armstrong stadiums
  5. Instant Replays
  6. Ever-evolving Tennis Fashion
  7. Unbelievable Upsets - like Henin falling to Bartoli at Wimbledon
  8. Andre Agassi - I adore him for his spirit on and off the court
  9. Steffi Graf - Powerful on the court, low-key off court
  10. Roger Federer - He's an amazing player, and a tennis fashion icon
  11. Venus Williams - She is playing her best tennis in years
  12. John McEnroe - I love that he's reinvented himself
  13. Serena Williams - I am going to chock her recent antics up to
    temporary insanity. More on that later.



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Tuesday, September 4, 2007

What Have You Done So Far This Year?


When 12:01AM hit on SEPTEMBER 1st I was still in shock. Shocked that 8 months (that's 35 weeks or 243 days) had passed me by. Where, o where did the time go? This sent me scrambling to find my list of goals for 2007 and looking for a thousand excuses as to why I haven't achieved many of them.

Excuse #1: I cannot find my list. I keep a half a dozen notebooks for scribbling and keeping my thoughts. Who knows which one of them my goals are listed in. If I find the list, I will keep you posted. However, I do know this: I have yet to achieve several items on my list. This is the huge mistake we often make. We set our goals and tuck them away somewhere. Then we wonder why every year we've got the same goals but little to show for it. My goals should always be in front of me. After all, how else will I achieve them?


Excuse #2: Some of my goals have changed. For instance, my goals for my business are completely different now. So, my goals have changed. What has that got to do with the fact that they are still goals and I must work to achieve them?

Excuse #3: I keep forgetting to set my intention for each day. This is especially terrible because I am participating in a 100 Day Challenge. I know for a fact that setting my intention for the day works wonders, yet I keep falling back into my same habit of not doing it. "I forgot" is a miserable excuse. I have to make this a part of my daily routine until it becomes a habit.

Excuse #4: Our economy sucks and many of my small business clients have tightened their belt. While this is true, it still isn't an excuse. Entrepreneurship requires flexibility and changing to meet the needs of your market, or finding a different market when this is required.

Excuse #5: I was totally bummed out about "stuff" happening personally, and in our society. The best way to overcome this: "Don't just sit there. Change something!"

So with a mere 118 days left in the year I am:

  • Writing a list of goals to be accomplished by the end of the year.
  • Going to set my intention for each day.
  • Writing a to-do-list each day consisting of just five things that I will accomplish that day, in the order of importance.
  • Posting my list of goals and repeating them daily in the positive.
When I'm done I'll post my goals on this blog. You can check in on my progress in the coming weeks at 100 Days at a Time.

Thursday, August 30, 2007

Thirteen People I'd Like to Meet


Thirteen Things about Samara Leigh

The Thirteen People I'd Most Like to Meet
(Living or Dead)

  1. My Maternal Grandparents
  2. Princess Diana
  3. Madame CJ Walker
  4. Angelina Jolie
  5. Mahatma Gandhi
  6. Leonardo DiCaprio
  7. Jane Austen
  8. Angela Bassett
  9. Madonna
  10. Sean Penn
  11. Oprah Winfrey
  12. Judy Blume
  13. LL Cool J
See the rest of the list here.

Other Thursday Thirteeners

Lara @ LaraChronicles.blogspot.com

Vixen @ VixensDen.wordpress.com

Nancy Bond @ NancyBond.blogspot.com

Gabriella Hewitt @ GabriellaHewitt.com/blog

The Diva @ IAmTheDiva.blogspot.com

Mom Huebert @ chocolateaftersupper.blogspot.com/

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Tuesday, August 28, 2007

Living in the Now


Planning is important. Without goals and plans we don't get very far in life. But it's not healthy for us to spend so much time thinking about the days, months, and years ahead that we miss the joy of experiences in the moment, in the now.


This a subject that GQ Jones and I often debate. From the moment my son turned 17, GQ would keep telling him "You're practically 18." He starts every vacation day by counting the number of days until he returns to work: "Well, just four more days left of my vacation." I love him to death, but it drives me freakin' crazy.


Now my son - who is at times like GQ congealed - has started to do the same. Here was today's conversation at 1PM:


Mini Record Mogul: "Wow, it's almost Friday again. The weeks are passing so fast these days."


Me (Who has trouble keeping track of my days of the week): "It is Tuesday, isn't it?"


MRM: "Yeah, but I'm just saying. It's almost Friday."


Me: "But, it's Tuesday."


MRM: "But in three days it'll be Friday."


Me: "But, that's three days from now."


MRM: "I know. But before you know it, I'll be chillin' and relaxing."


Me: "On Tuesday-Friday?"


MRM: "Yep."


Alrighty then. I've spent enough of my life waiting for this or that to happen. Like this one thing would make everything good, better, or at least okay. Maybe it's just being on the other side of 35. But, I am determined to get the maximum out of every single moment of my life. I'm planning for tomorrow. But, I'm living in the now.





Saturday, August 25, 2007

Where Did These Psychos Come From?


Okay, first of all, I'm not going to jump all over rapper, DMX, until more substantive information comes forth. That having been said...

Are these guys out of their f#*%ing minds?! First Michael Vick is discovered to be running a dogfighting ring - and thank goodness, we are no longer forced to claim that these are 'alleged charges.' Dude copped to a plea agreement after his boys started singing like birds. The NFL quickly reacted by delivering a indefinite suspension for the former star quarterback. Now they've recovered 12 undernourished pit bulls and recovered the bodies of at least 3 dead dogs at the Arizona home of rapper DMX.

Ironic that his last album is entitled Year of the Dog...Again. On his website he's holding on to the chain of a fierce dog, teeth bared, and looking like he could eat Manhattan. The dog, that is. Not DMX.

The more I talk to people on this issue I've discovered that in many sectors of the United States dogfighting is considered - and I quote - "a legitimate sport," much like greyhound racing. The difference - I always remind people who offer this argument - is that in dogracing or horseracing the animals are not there for the sole purpose of fighting to the death. Cockfighting, while not currently in the limelight, is just as cruel and ugly. People are more passionate about dogfighting vs. cockfighting is because of our strong affinity, as humans, for dogs.
Both sports are bloodthirsty and cruel. They put us just inches away from being like the Colisseums full of Romans whose insatiable thirst to see human blood spilled fueled the Gladiator games.
If we're being reduced to becoming a society where large segments find watching animals fight to death entertaining, is it any wonder that we live in such a violent society? But then again, I think boxing and wrestling are pretty damn barbaric, too.

What do you think?

Thursday, August 23, 2007

Thirteen CDs Currently in Rotation


Thirteen Things about Samara Leigh

The Thirteen CDs I Currently Have in Rotation

  1. The Evolution of Robin Thicke
  2. Introducing Joss Stone
  3. Elliott Yamin
  4. Daughtry
  5. Chris Brown
  6. Luvanmusiq - Muziq
  7. Worldwide Underground - Erykah Badu
  8. The Great Works of Johann Sebastian Bach
  9. Putumayo Presents: Asian Lounge
  10. X&Y - Coldplay
  11. 2:35 PM - Calvin Richardson
  12. Stripped - Christina Aguilera
  13. Kingdom Come - Jay-Z

Other Thursday Thirteeners

Lara @ LaraChronicles.blogspot.com

Vixen @ VixensDen.wordpress.com

Nancy Bond @ NancyBond.blogspot.com

Gabriella Hewitt @ GabriellaHewitt.com/blog

The Diva @ IAmTheDiva.blogspot.com

Mom Huebert @ chocolateaftersupper.blogspot.com/

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Tuesday, August 21, 2007

It's So Nice to Be Understood...

I absolutely love this commercial. It is the cutest thing. It does a great job of illustrating the special relationship you share with friends who really "get" you.

I am thankful to have friends like that.

Namaste,

Samara Leigh

Thursday, August 16, 2007

Thursday Thirteen: Thirteen Things I Do When I Am Supposed to be Writing


Thirteen Things about Samara Leigh

Thirteen Things I'm Probably Doing When I Should Be Writing

  1. Checking email
  2. Answering instant messages
  3. Rearranging my desk
  4. Updating my website
  5. Creating a new website
  6. Surfing the web
  7. Reading a book
  8. Writing a new story
  9. Playing Scrabble
  10. Walking
  11. On the telephone
  12. Family time
  13. Watching The Closer or Burn Notice

Other Thursday Thirteeners

Lara @ LaraChronicles.blogspot.com

Vixen @ VixensDen.wordpress.com

Nancy Bond @ NancyBond.blogspot.com

Gabriella Hewitt @ GabriellaHewitt.com/blog

The Diva @ IAmTheDiva.blogspot.com

Mom Huebert @ chocolateaftersupper.blogspot.com/

(leave your link in comments, I’ll add you here!)



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Tuesday, August 14, 2007

Fast Draft - Get That Novel Done

This week I've been participating in Candy Haven's Fast Draft. The idea is to essentially write about 5,000 words, or 20 pages per day of either a new novel, or a work in progress. I'll admit, my initial goal was only 3,500 and I was quite happy with it, but I am teamed up with some really great women who are motivating and encouraging.

One of the things that we are repeatedly admonished is to banish all distractions - email, telephone, voicemail, IM, TV. Okay, I've been doing so-so there. Then there is the big one: To send your Internal Editor (IE) packing. While I am not in my usual frenzy, I am doing a little bit of revising. Not on purpose, of course. It sort of happens before I even realize it. Mostly because rereading the last few pages before I begin writing is a ritual for me - and another rule I am not doing so well at keeping.

Fast Draft lasts for two weeks. By the end of the week, I hope that I will be able to conquer many of these tendencies. My current progress on the project I'm working on is displayed on the meter below.

I'd like to introduce you to my teammates - funny, amazing, inspiring women who are definitely worth meeting. Hop on over to their cyber homes to say hello:

Margery Scott

Carol Burge

Nancy Kay Bowden.

As Carol would say, Happy Writing. As Margery would say, Go Team, Go!. As Nancy Kay would say, Hugs!

Namaste,

Samara

Zokutou word meterZokutou word meterZokutou word meter
24,543 / 50,000
(48.0%)

Wednesday, August 8, 2007

What Lessons Have You Learned Since Turning Thirty?


A funny thing happened after I turned 30: I began to feel a rushing sense of what ifs and why nots. What if I'd gotten married later in life? Why not have an actual career, instead of just a job? What do I really want to do with my life? And let's not forget... Why do people keep calling me ma'am? (That seriously makes me want to hit a teeny bopper).

I began to feel like a bit of a rebel. There was no bra-burning or door slamming. Yet, I definitely had feelings of rebellion and resentment. I was at a point where I felt I had not made the most advantageous use of "the best years of my life" - hold the booing, I was still naive about how great being 30 and beyond could be at the time. I questioned the things I'd been taught, the things I'd chosen to believe, and the fact that I'd summarily dismissed my hopes and dreams for the greater good.

I was resentful. I primarily resented myself for letting it happen, yet still lacked the courage to really do anything about it. As any positive thinker knows - which I now am, thank you very much - such negative thoughts are bound to lead to trouble. Bad decisions were made. However, there were lots of really important lessons learned, too.

As I talked to friends, family, etc. I discovered that many women experienced this same sort of period of pain and growth in their 30s. Thus my Adventures of a 30-Something Rebel was born. I wanted to create a space where women could share the reflections, experiences, and wisdom earned during their 30s for two reasons:

  1. Catharsis - Anyone woman over 30 knows the importance of sharing her experience with other women. We're not usually looking for answers, just a listening ear. Someone to tell us that they understand, or that they've had a similar experience. That we're not crazy. That things will work out in the end.
  2. To help other women learn from our mistakes and from the things that we got right, but only wished we'd done sooner.
You'll find some really wonderful women profiled on the site. Many of them are fabulously 40, or Baby Boomer Divas who have graciously shared the lessons that they learned in their 30s and what it has helped them to achieve later in their lives. Hop on over to the site. We'd love to hear your story.

Namaste,

Samara